>>9115
>I am a last generation weeb, so I basically got onto the scene right before mainstream culture raped everything in the 2010s.
between you, me, and the blancfag, i think this describes a lot of us
>Look, it's not like I don't find myself attracted to any loli characters (...) I however, do not find myself attracted to loli characters like Rin Kokonoe, or Ram in her normal form. I've always had a hard time understanding physical attraction to these characters and rather come to the conclusion that most "antis" as twitterfags would say
to me, it just seems like you're only attracted to some or certain lolis, probably more attracted to their personalities or because of a personal attachment you have with them, which is understandable; that is the partially the point of having characters in a story, they're meant to get you to care about the story. feeling romantically or even sexually attracted to one, at least to me, means that the character is just really well-made, either from a writing standpoint or a design standpoint, or both.
there're even different subcategories of loli, if you want to try and pinpoint a spot where the physical attraction just stops for you. ram and rom would probaby fall somewhere around heidi complex i think
it's worth noting that "lolicon"--having a lolita complex in general--isn't exclusively a sexual thing, it's more than fair if someone finds a loli cute purely in a daughter or a little sister kind of way, i'd still say that's lolicon. i guess it bothers me when people single out sexual or romantic desire specifically as being lesser or problematic somehow.
to explain the general physical attraction, at least with me, i just generally find "cute" more appealing or arousing than "sexy". i just like smaller body types, and all the things that would entail, like flat chests, small/flat butt, generally...i guess "cuter" proportions, i don't know how to explain it in a very satisfying way. i just find "cute" appeal more attractive.
i like the idea of being physically intimate with a girl that's shorter than me, like cuddling her while nuzzling my chin on top of her head, or teasing her a little for being small, but ultimately reassuring her that that's what i like about her and making her feel more confident in herself, or picking her up and carrying her around...
i also like the physical comedy it entails in a lot of series. as much as i get onto other people for finding the same three memes funny, the joke that's in every series with a legal loli where they get confused for being a kid and the comedy that comes from that always makes me happy, i just find it all really cute.
there was a period in my preteens where i thought i was entirely asexual, since i was vehemently unattracted to most women/girls around me, and the thought of sex or starting a family actually really grossed me out, but this also coincided with me beginning to watch a lot more anime and playing more games, and after watching enough stuff and incidentally finding out about hentai, i eventually came to the conclusion that it was simply just the fact that i wasn't attracted to women/girls who tried too hard to be "mature" or "sexy", and that i favored "cute" far more. a lot of anime and games helped me figure myself out and what i wanted more, as odd as that may sound. now that i'm older and still like this, i'm wondering if it's just my desires for a "girlfriend" figure and a "daughter" figure manifesting as this, apparently it's common for people who over-emphasize romance and obsess over finding a partner to imagine their partner fulfilling every social role, which causes problems, but psycho-analysis is gay and dumb so ignore literally all of this
i don't know how common this is with other lolicons, i imagine if you ask around you'll get a whole slew of different answers because everyone's different (i've met people who're into loli characters but were specifically only attracted to curvier women irl and found smaller women unattractive, i've also run into people online who...to avoid being explicit, their desires were unfortunately not limited to fiction, and i think everyone here has seen at least one story of someone who was vehemently anti-loli or anti-anime in general, but ended up being a closet predator).
i don't know if this was a very satisfying answer, i think it's just simple for most people, a fetish is just a fetish.
also, i too am specifically unattracted to characters like rin kokonoe, but that's just specifically because i find being bratty to the point of being outright cunty to be not very cute. a kid trying way too hard to act like an adult somewhat flies in the face of what i find "cute", i'm reminded that's why i've historically not been attracted to a lot of girls when i was younger
>Also does anyone understand the root of Tsunakos obsession with suspicious liquid that looks like cum, she often put it in her older artworks before she had to become more moderated.